the feminist librarian reads

When Men Say No To Sex | Charlie Glickman

I’ve always said that if you can’t say no, then you can’t say yes. Usually, this comes up around women’s agency and the many ways in which girls and women are taught that they don’t get to control their bodies or their choices. And it also happens every time someone assumes that men are always (or should always) want to have sex. It happens every time someone shames a man for not being in the mood or being too tired or not having an erection. And it happens every time someone’s masculinity is questioned because he says he doesn’t want or isn’t in the mood for sex.