the feminist librarian reads

I’ve found my favourite human and because of all the amazing benefits of being in a relationship with him I chose not to get horizontal with anyone else. This however doesn’t cancel out my sexual history with anyone other than him, and certainly doesn’t stop my occasional cravings for some of that delicious raspberry ripple. I don’t think its unusual for people in monogamous relationships to find people other than their partner attractive, and to have had sexual experiences before committing to their current partners. So why do so many people lose their minds when I acknowledge that some of my passing attractions and past sexy times have been with women?