the feminist librarian reads

By actively participating in a culture of male sex toy usage, however, men might learn how to experience their sexual desire without relying exclusively on interpersonal interaction or the simulation of interpersonal interaction. Men still tend to see sex with a partner as their primary sexual outlet and masturbation as a poor substitute for the “real deal,” a mindset that places undue pressure on both themselves and their partners. Men stuck in this mindset could stand to learn a lot from women about sex, pleasure, and toy use.